My son CJ is 21. This is the worst thing I have gone through. If you find it difficult to come to terms with your sibling's or parent's mental illness, there are many others who share your difficulty. These are just a tiny smattering of the thoughts that haunt me. On the bad days, they overwhelm me. He has yelled and cursed at me to the top of his lungs telling me how horrible I am as a mother and a grandmother. I know she is overreacting to a large extent. February 13, 2017 at 9:00 am #127393. I just can’t get along with her. My daughter was diagnosed with bipolar around age 11. He has a job and takes care of himself for the most part. He hates me in particular even though all I do is help him. My 21-year-old adult son hates me. I hate my bipolar son. There are as many experiences with bipolar disorder as there are people with bipolar. She yells at her small children constantly. I’ve found myself covering my ears to escape the noise. I just shut up now as I don't want to get into an argument. She is adopted. My 30 year old son said he never wants to see or talk to me again. He verbally abuses his sisters and I on a daily basis. He says that he knows I hate him (which I don't). And so much more.” — Polly R. As you can see, a lot of people experience similar paranoid thoughts. Julie Joyce is a Chicago Police Officer and the mother of an adult son who suffers from bipolar disorder and ADHD. The screaming is constant and then there is a voice shouting “Everyone hates you,” “You’re worthless” and “Why don’t you kill yourself.” It frightens me immensely. This topic has 10 replies, 3 voices, and was last updated 3 years, 8 months ago by Jennifer. It is suggested that about 90 percent of marriages where one person is bipolar ends in divorce (Marano, 2003). Viewing 11 posts - 1 through 11 (of 11 total) Author. But the truism about thoughts of hate is that they aren’t true and they are counter-productive. Over the years Julie has been a strong advocate and volunteer with National Alliance for Mental Illness, The Balanced Mind Foundation, and has assisted with the creation and implementation of the Advanced Juvenile Crisis Intervention training (CIT) for Chicago Police officers. A person with bipolar is likely to have thought about, if not tried, suicide. Although he take turns on who he is going to hate on a daily basis. From this 30 year marriage, I now have a 33 year old daughter who was diagnosed with Bipolar also. He threatens me all of the time. He would have a episode every couple months. Topic: My Bipolar husband blames me for everything 4 posts, 0 answered Oldest first | Newest first. She had trauma In her life. Posts. My daughter has been diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder. Son With Anger And Bipolar Disorder by: Anonymous My son is 26 years old. Joined Mar 8, 2014 Messages 333. She has made some terrible decisions and now is 35 with two children and no supportive fathers. Supporting Someone with Bipolar - For Family and Friends. On the bad days they convince me of my self-hatred and they drive me to consider the only way of rectifying the problem – suicide. But I have tried so hard to help. My family hates me.. Thread starter act044; Start date Apr 29, 2014; Tags debt family feel loans student; A. act044 Well-known member . He takes no responsibility for his actions, instead always finding a way to put the blame on me and or others. My parents hate me. Ask Question Asked 4 years, 2 months ago. Everyone hates me secretly. I feel I have made up for those mistakes in the past several years. It doesn't even have to be day to day, it can be within the same day. Like all married couples, we promised to take care of each other and promised 'til death fo us part. Thursday, March 7, 2019. Breast Cancer Helped Me Understand My Bipolar Son. “Paranoid that everyone is against me. 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